What perhaps is really “the birds”, since I become the official license after comrade, only then discovered that the side attained the friend who comrade the specialized card illuminated to be also getting more and more, to encourage these also to leave the cabinet, but worry comrade, I have sampled specially the part the cabinet example, hoped that could help comrade “bravely to walk forward”!
Live broadcast 1: Maintains internal security and repels foreign invasion develops in private
Primary Yan is in family’s only son, will therefore probably undertake the responsibility which inevitably is passed on from generation to generation, primary Yan was also one since childhood the willful child who spoiled, therefore as early as in the college days, he had indicated to the family member oneself was comrade.

How no matter the parents do do best to convince enlightening and the persuasion, primary Yan’s Comrade realizes actually slightly has not vacillated, has the change only, perhaps is only he boyfriend one has traded one! After several year crosscut saw, primary Yan has reached the mutual recognition with his parents, present’s he already was finally two boys’ daddies.
Abandoned the morality for the time being, the list on the realistic stratification plane, many parents themselves have not bounced too greatly actually to the homosexuality, they cared are only are passed on from generation to generation with the idle word rumors. Therefore, so long as the whole family identical battleline foreign seal, closes the housework which the gate comes, because the bystander did not look that also cannot manage, therefore all “good discuss”. But to take into consideration the situation which the family member is concerned about face-saving, perhaps comrade might also as well makes concessions one step, in family member line of sight institute and outside the scope, their comrade have lived!
Live broadcast 2: The household head good performance supports
Similarly had not thought has cabinet’s family to the family member to be great, actually after the enterprise manages increasingly has, also more and more does not evade own comrade the identity. This also no wonder, because family great one expenses all pay by him, gradually, the family member the identity also did not have too many opinions to his comrade.
Is actually not the family depends the money to speak great, perhaps his family member lowers the head to the material, a bigger reason should be, what besides likes is homogeneous this matter, the family to the parents with the attendance, is filial great in 3 children does many, in addition his being independent and self-reliant, also had proven truly comrade is also good bamboo shoots!
Live broadcast 3: Has a tacit understanding the family member to tacitly consent to
Holds the post of office work the small day, should be the luckiest also most legend the cabinet represents.
According to small day narration, although he had one already to associate 5 year boyfriend Arab League sea, but because the Arab League sea was a professional soldier, two people gathered radically little leave many, moreover sometimes they together went home to pass the night, the small day’s family member also was only regards them the nabs, therefore the small day on had not thought from the start must approach the family member to publicize own comrade the identity.
Until one day, small day’s father and mother go north the visiting son, when his mother sees on the desk the small day and the Arab League sea group photo, opened the mouth to say unexpectedly suddenly: “how that hadn’t the long time seen the Arab League sea, was you quarrelled?”
Those who let the small day be surprised, when he is perfunctory reports “the Kaifu team to be very busy, after recently very little was on leave”, his mother unexpectedly was only said lightly: “oh! Since that you also in the same place, wait for him to be on leave together go home to live in several days!”Starts from that day, the small day knew that actually his family member is the keen ears and sharp eyes, is only everybody does not want to open the mouth to raise “the homosexuality” this matter!
Perhaps some people will think that “will have a tacit understanding” is the kind of ostrich point of view radically, probably did not say that may disguise not to have this matter; But everybody might as well thinks, after using “comrade” to claim “homosexual”, quite does not have that gratingly? Especially speaking of the old parents, so long as does not bring to light saying “the homosexuality” this matter, they perhaps may also use the point of view which one kind consoles oneself, turns a blind eye accepts the children comrade to favor.
Live broadcast 4: The reality asked that empty answers the melt sensitive topic
The year 30 companies have been in charge of the will to be bold, not only in has is compelled marriage’s family pressure, by the outside regard is frequently “the intimate” the first choice goal, is only on faces marital the topic, the small bold reply forever is: “so long as you can say the advantage which only then marries can obtain, then I immediately look for the partner to get married.”
The spoken language attack and defense is approximately the following script:
Questioning: “you do not marry, has that old who looked after you?”
Answer: “who can guarantee that marriage certainly some people look after? If my wife health is worse than me, perhaps is I looks after her! As for the child did not need, I to raise the child the expenditure to save, enough my quality good old age has lived!”
Questioning: “is not in love does not marry, don’t you fear lonely?”
Answer: “lonely? Do not crack a joke! I only am study the foreign language, to practice the fitness, to become friends, the study abroad to travel to the busy company treat with courtesy, already thought that the time is insufficient, where has the possibility to be lonely! Also, lonely time is very easy to look for the matter to send, but the wife child lets you are annoyed, you can call them entirely to vanish?”
So forth is in sharp opposition the dialog may infinite extend, the biggest advantage is, you may avoid the topic which comrade favors, the single stressed that you are one do not marry the race, knows the limitation the human will again not harass mostly you.
Exempts anxiously: Grasps in fine weather and favorable geographical position the natural person to gather
Leaves cabinet’s pressure and the consequence lets comrade worry truly, but comrade also does not need to be too anxious, no matter because comes from the family member or the outside pressure, so long as comrade can put out “fishes the human” the ingenious conception and the patience, certainly is may find out the countermeasure.
Moreover comrade also does not need to be impatient, many comrades retire from the armed services after likely, even surpasses 30 year old of talent to leave the cabinet, therefore young comrade do not want to be discouraged, so long as remembered that grasps the opportunity which the first weather, benefits, is may certainly obtain “the human gathers” the cabinet result!