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The man besides cares about the musculus pectoralis in the fitness process the exercise, next most cared is the musculi abdominis. Has thickly the musculus pectoralis, is joined to 6 line bright musculi abdominis, is stature which each men long for even in dreams. Today we came and everybody say musculi abdominis’s exercise. The exercise musculi abdominis has many methods, the simple effective method is the unarmed sit-ups, only needs before sleeping to make such meeting, insisted that will have the attractive musculi abdominis.

In everybody’s impression, the attractive musculi abdominis should be “rubs the clothes board”, is actually not this, the genuine healthy abdomen should by thin and the powerful waist and the line obvious musculi abdominis constitution, that kind of very bulk heavy line’s musculi abdominis is unattractive, if musculi abdominis’s two side sizes are asymmetrical are fatal, the serious influence is artistic. This kind of situation is mainly makes an effort in the exercise process to create non-uniform. If you insist the sit-ups, in addition the reasonable strength training and has the oxygen training, and strict control diet, will see in 2~3 months to 6 attractive musculi abdominis.

　Frequency: One week 3 above exercise

The sit-ups exercise one of musculi abdominis best movements. Starts when exercises, each time insists about 15 minutes, will then exercise the time to lengthen gradually. From the very beginning the exercise, the second day of abdomen will have the uncomfortableness, some will also appear is sore, as soon as will smile on the pain, this will be the very natural muscle responded, a period of time muscle has adapted has been good. If the abdomen has the ache, should stop the exercise, after knowing ache vanishing, exercises again, avoids the abdomen muscle pulling injury.

In makes the sit-ups the initial stage, every week practices the number of times to maintain above 3 times, and in one week must have one time has the oxygen movement, for instance jogs, the swimming and so on, the effect can be more obvious. Has the oxygen movement is mainly uses for to consume in vivo the fat, avoids the abdomen fat stack, affects the exercise effect. If has the time to go to the gymnasium, should better carry on correspondingly to the abdomen carries a heavy load the practice, like this models the shape to the musculi abdominis to be able to be quicker.

The musculi abdominis models the shape is the process which proceeds in an orderly way, cannot act with undue haste, therefore we must maintain one enthusiasm. When you feel to this kind of each week several time sit-ups movement is weary, cannot give up, must insist that only then the man of purpose can practice the attractive muscle.

Diet: The control fat takes in

In musculi abdominis’s exercise, the diet and the movement effect occupies half respectively, therefore we in the exercise musculi abdominis’s process, want certainly the strict control diet by the vegetables, the fruit primarily, meats amount of radiation control about 30%; Takes in the high protein food, control fat intaking, specially evening’s staple food, little as far as possible eats the high fat food. In addition, physical ability restoration in exercise process also very important. The daily 8 hour orderly sleep are helpful to the physical ability restoration.

So long as you insisted for a long time every night makes the sit-ups, only needs for three months, you will have the attractive musculi abdominis, in addition push-up movement, then a standard healthy man stature will belong to you. What kind, the heart movement is inferior to move, for can attract attractive MM in the summer day beach the attention, tonight starts on your bed the sit-ups movement.

The American homosexuality magazine “OUT” the announcement most has the cultural influence in North America 50 homosexual name list, musical world greatly old David Ge Fen reaches the first place, is in the lead CNN the anchor Anderson copal, AilunDi who the female is the third place the Jennie silk position is highest, leads places 43rd two session of Oscar movie queen Zhudi Foster.

In “OUT” in the evaluation standard, the wealth which, short-term individual performance in the policy the pivotal influence, pop culture’s sympathetic chord, will have and so on is very important. Champion David the Ge fragrance had the arrogant person’s achievement without a doubt in 4 big projects, the populace most knows very well him only then once to pass on with Jinuoliwei the marriage, but the field was widely known, if turned him the enemy, was equal to at enterprise’s injuring, gave up any idea of the turning over.

CNN the anchor Anderson copal by the refined semblance substitution tradition television station’s old age masculine anchor, wins many women supports, this year his yearly salary also rises one time from 2,000,000 US dollars, amounts to 4,000,000 US dollars. AilunDi the Jennie silk day after day has substitutes for the European pula imposing manner, in addition also receives “the American idol” the appraisal, the Japan at night audience catches the whole lot in a dragnet.

Other being on the post list of successful candidates many celebrities. Top in 10, once also greatly for radish Western Europe Downer who was lucky obtained 6th, fashionable designer Marc Jacobs in the film and television circle was 8th.

A time big scale’s homosexuality subject international film festival will conduct from April 22nd to 25th in the Indian Bombay, this film festival will show surpasses 100 to stem from different national the related theme movie.

The subject general idea is “the charm” (Kashish) this Bombay international cool film festival will be up to at present which conducts in India the scale biggest homosexuality theme film festival, the approximately 110 movies which the film festival predetermined will show stems from 25 countries or the area, will show the place in the local two big theaters, the host institution welcome community the public will go to watch the movie. Except the film projection beside, the film festival will also conduct related activities and so on subject seminar and movie person meeting.

On April 15, the organizer once held the launching ceremony and in Bombay for this film festival the press conference, once attained in 2001 “Indian young lady” laurel crown well-known actor Surrey - Jieteli (Celina Jaitley) to attend the ceremony, Jieteli publicly has always supported Indian domestic homosexual counter-discrimination. At ceremony, Jieteli also for this film festival’s propaganda preview unveiling.

According to the organizer introduced that this session of Bombay international cool film festival’s run picture in content and style many and varied, these movies had reflected the homosexual, the bisexual and the cross sex’s life and the story, the different movie will present questions and so on discrimination which the minority sexual preference and the minority sex status faces, also reflects the good and bad in life which in the current realistic society the multiplex tidal current and the Indian homosexual community experiences. The film festival organizer hoped that the public goes to watch these movies, understood that anything is the cool culture.

This film festival will show the plot lengthy picture, the short film, the documentary film and the experiment movie and so on many kinds of type works, already has stems from Indian our country the related theme work, also has Taiwan’s female homosexuality theme movie “Ambiguous”, South Korean Director the golden light Xiu’s youth homogeneous love movie “Boy Meets Boy”, as well as stems from Singapore, Indonesian, Thai, Israeli and European and American countries many movies, some movies once obtained international film festival’s award item.

This film festival has also set up the best international short film, the best Indian short film, the best record lengthy picture and the best record short film four big prizes, various prizes winner the syndicate which will be composed of five people will select, syndicate members including India well-known movie actor and professional. This film festival’s organizer including an Indian movie company, face homosexual’s magazine “Bombay Friends” and a civic body.

In recent years, along with the economic development and the expense idea’s change, woman improved looks the aspect which outshone others to change. A gang of gentleman improves looks the skin care tide like a raging fire from Europe and the coast to inland big or media-sized cities spread.

However, the gentleman skin care can in no way casual or Hu buys at a venture several section of gentlemen special-purpose skin care product, as soon as according to the explanation toward on the face on, the body wipes settles, but is must clarify oneself skin’s type, and target-oriented use skin appliances. Upscale, the expensive cosmetology skin appliances not necessarily suit you, only then suitable is best.

Below, lets us chat the gentleman skin’s predominant type and the maintenance method.

One. Aridity skin

Performance characteristic: This kind of skin does not have the gloss, the slight wrinkle are many, when coldly obviously the superficial scaled leather meal, meets, the hot stimulation, easy to blush, the fat secretes few, does is astringent, is rough.

　Maintenance method: Makes the face massage frequently, the improvement partial blood circulation. Selects the acidic clean thing. After clean surface, uses contains the nutrient content fat class skin care paste maintenance skin care richly. Few smoking, maintain the sufficient sleep every day; The multi-food contain the high protein and trace element food richly.

Two. Oily skin

Performance characteristic: The sebum secretion is rich, easy to receive pollutes, is weak to bacterium’s resistivity. If does not pay attention to clean nursing, the easy fresh acne, smallpox smallpox, the skin becomes rough. Is in the growth development period the male youth is this kind of skin.

　Maintenance method: Sooner or later 2 times, first will use the clean strength strong gentleman special-purpose to wash the face at least every day the scented soap clean face, latter with drips into (several drops then to be possible) few white vinegar tepid laundering only, and dips the right amount lotion with the absorbent cotton to whip the face gently. Uses the gentleman special-purpose emulsion skin care, maintains the sufficient sleep, the happy mood. The few food are pungent, the stimulation and high fat food, eats the vegetables, the fruit, strict control coffee, smoke, liquor amount of radiation.

Three. Mixing property skin

Performance characteristic: The sebum secretion is unobstructed, skin exquisite smooth; The climate influence, slightly the oil, the winter slightly will be been in the summer dry. This kind is the normal skin.

Nursing method: In the summer pays attention against exposes to the sun, the winter frostproof, after sooner or later will use the gentleman special-purpose clean thing clean surface, with contains the nutrient content gentleman special-purpose skin appliances skin care richly. Although is the normal skin, but the sufficient sleep and avoided certain foods pungent food, the control tobacco and liquor was still necessary.

Four. Allergic skin

Performance characteristic: This kind of skin easily to ultraviolet ray, cosmetics, drugs, chemical agent and chemical fiber clothing allergy. When allergy, the skin appears inflamed, itches, sheds skin, the papula, serious will also cause the serious skin inflammation.

Nursing method: The summer day against exposes to the sun, the winter frostproof; In the determination allergy source’s situation, should not better not contact the seafood, the pollen, to grow hair the pet, the chemical fiber clothing, the pesticide, do not take the stimulant, the sedative, to catch cold the medicine, to lose weight the medicine, the laxative as well as without the test cosmetics. When sooner or later only surface and skin care, with includes the nutrient content, the nature gentle gentleman clean surface thing and the skin appliances elected.

Five. Dark sore skin

Performance characteristic: Obviously obvious dark sore and pigmentation, deep color spot.

　Nursing method: Will use every day sooner or later the sulfur scented soap clean surface, afterward with adds the few table salt cold water clean to be clean. After clean surface, smudges the trouble place with the sulfur ointment or the tetracyclin ointment. Suitable supplement vitamin C, the trace element, drink the plain boiled water, the multi-food vegetables fruit, fasts pungent, greasy, the coffee, the peanut, the strong tea and the tobacco and liquor. When the symptom is serious, accepts the treatment promptly to the hospital.

Six. Pigment spot skin

Sa Fu (Sappho). She forces the Spoth island more than 2000 year ago (Lesbos), is sending out the frankincense, the fan fragrance and Chinese cassia tree’s fragrance, wears with the saffron crocus exaggeration purple long unlined close-fitting gown, sits serenely on the stool, reads the pure white reed paper article, indeed like the Ahl triumphant Uzbekistan and Sri Lanka said that she has the violet hair, pure, seems the honey smiling face. On two female companions, a hand-hold garland, with the wild rose, the violet arranges on the garland, is looking at her such happily; Another hand takes the harp, the people said that the Sa luck, she likes the female loving music such depth likely. Her love have to used the poetry with the fervor to pour out, or, the poetry was loves with the fervor, our Sa Fu, has become the tenth Muse, these “Sa Futi” poem, graceful fine, the words and expressions were harmonious, and was in harmony with the syllable, might chant melodiously, rice Grey (Meleager) acclaimed: Although are not many, but is a wild rose. It is said under the Lao Plato’s pillow, Tibet is only the Sa Fu poem.

Actually we return to original condition incapable Sa Fu. The field dawn Philippines said that she is a blank actually. Yes, we the verse fragment which stays behind by reason of the Sa luck, as well as is the continuation of the fragmentary memory fills the blank, “the wish” has filled in us. Sa Fu is only a symbol actually, how many years, close right up against to her summon, we in the heart, in the literature, restructure a Sa luck in the cultural tradition. The contemplation Sa luck, is the contemplation oneself body, seems the narcissus flower Naxi south stares in the water affectionately “the elephant”, what is in love is one. Therefore, Sa Fu is a poet, is the mother, the sisters, is the sweetheart; She representative who treats as the female homosexuality, that kind of love was considered sometimes that is “unclean”, sometimes has become fashionably, the achievement revolts against the male power the model; She is also portrayed by Austria Veid the resentful woman who is gotten rid by the man; The people also said that she is the pure and chaste female teacher, is the Girl’s school creator, even had also discovered another pure and chaste will write the lyric poetry Sa Fu will distinguish the fable profligate Sa Fu. All sorts of this kind, is one all possible, possibly is the immediately significance, possibly constituted the history, does not have the right and wrong. Said from this angle that I Sa Fu who writes down in here, is also an immediately possibility. We even definitely may get rid of the literature material to mold a Sa luck, but the present, I obey these memory directly from master to disciple, reads these poetries the remnant chapter to punctuate, stares at this me immediately Sa Fu.

The Sa luck family background in a noble aristocratic family, this has as if entrusted with the possibility which she composes a poem. Her family has the pivotal status in the local political activity. Or is precisely political struggle’s result, the Sa luck starts the going into exile in life, this is 605 B.C. to previous 590 years matter. She dwells away from home Sicily first, afterward only then arrived has forced the Spoth island. On the island the excellent surroundings pleasant weather, Sa Fu feels at ease in this lives. She starts professor unmarried young girl poetry art, loves art, even improves looks puts on make-up and so on, not only local young girl, farther some place some family’s girls, also comes to see a famous person with admiration. They are forcing Spoth the island to recite the poetry, plays the harp, mutually dear, tranquil auspicious. Forces the Spoth island (Charlis Baudelaire) regards as by wave Delisle female’s paradise: “in there, lazy or warm kiss,/sun combustion, watermelon equally cool,” “the young girls open the greatly spatial pupil before the mirror,/in barren sterile happy hugs the mature body mutually”. These females are also called as “force the Spoth person”, this word is Lesbian, afterward became the female homosexual’s fixed name.

Wave Fu Wa (Beauvoir) said that all women are the homosexuals since birth. All puberty’s young girl, can as well as the masculine control wants to man’s entry to quail, feels the loathing to man’s body; But female’s happy body, since the man likes, also at the same time likes for the woman. (”the Second Nature”) John · Dunne (John Donne), in “Sa Fu Sends Philippine Lini To think”, is this expresses the female to the man body’s loathing and to female body’s like: “his chin, more than piece of thorns, furry rough fallow land,/always one kind of threat, much less changes daily,/, but your body is the natural paradise,/does not need to apply fertilizer, the innate spring scenery is boundless, why/also has no need to consummate - - that also to want/a coarse and stiff man’s cultivation?”But the Sa Fu this first poetry expressed the young girl broken body’s grief: “looks like in a hills’s hyacinthus orientalis/to trample by the herdsman/is only left over purple the spot/to remain in ground.”This hyacinthus orientalis’s broken intention has represented body’s of the maiden end, such end, is sighed woefully repeatedly by the Sa luck: “, the room female chastity, room female chastity - -/you leave me, whereabouts where? /- - I this leave, will return no longer,/never regression, never regression.”

In the 2nd century B.C.’s reed paper text said that Sa Fu has a daughter, is called Clessie the silk, but also has a husband, is a merchant, from the andros island (man’s meaning), named Kyker Russ (male root meaning). Only presents daughter’s name in hers poetry, but does not have husband’s trail. That husband’s name, as if was also because of daughter’s existence, but is named abstractly. This Kyker Russ, is the male root, whether Yu Shi she to the male root’s loathing and the fear, only then did leave him? Fable Sa Fu has three brothers, an elder brother, is profligate, for a name calls “the wild rose cheek” the prostitute, squanders completely the family property, Sa Fu persuades not to listen repeatedly. Perhaps elder brother’s rascal behavior often will cause in the growth young girl to man’s loathing? Virginia (Virginia Stephen), because the childhood has suffered with the mother different father’s elder brother’s sexual harassment, also, because elder sister Stan pulled is harbors the pregnancy to die, therefore her life does not have to eliminate thoroughly to the natural and the marital fear. Meanwhile in the very long time, she only lingers at her elder sister every nai sha (Vanessa Stephen), afterward did not stop has other homogeneous partner. Although she afterward married Lennard, but many people suspected whether she does have the natural relations with the husband. (Mao Jian “Slowly Smile”)

In forces on the Spoth island, is been in love with the young girl by Sa Fu, in the Sa Fu poetry mentions has west Di Si, the Arab League class the silk, Gong Yila and so on, Sa Fu for them wild rose’s cheek, happy smiling face, to flutter pure white early morning clothes, for cheerful singing, but mind shaking, she said loudly, “I for you, the beautiful person, will forever not break faith”; “you have come, I for you crazy crazy,/my heart is the desire combustion, you cause it cool.”Speaking of these young girls, they to the Sa luck’s dependence, are similar to mother’s warm dependence, when they in puberty fear in man’s stiff infringement, they will contrast oneself old mother person to offer like with respecting, make excessive demands to obtain her like womb general warm love with to shelter, may the without cause for grief not filter oneself to one’s heart’s content in such bosom. Looks like Virginia to be the same to the elder sister every nai sha, in every nai sha wedding night, she gives back to the elder sister to write such letter: “left your islands, we are still your humble little animals. From the winter to Xia Daoqiu, we do not stop sings to ask for your favor to propose to you, to hope that one day of you to marry us. But we do not dare to save this thought now, only asks you us, when your sweetheart.”She afterward unceasingly and elder sister’s husband, the sweetheart had the relations, in a sense, was precisely her childhood days wish: With every nai sha in the same place. (Mao Jian “Slowly Smile”)

The Chinese Department of Technical Science Significant Special Office on 2nd holds the media advance-information meeting on the national science and technology significant special progress saying that “AIDS and the toxic hepatitis and so on significant infectious disease prevents and controls” the national science and technology significant special AIDS vaccine research to obtain gradualness to progress, by the end of 2009, the Chinese first generation of AIDS vaccine - - reorganization smallpox vaccine virus (rTV) AIDS vaccine clinical research result progress is smooth.

　The technical department significant special manages provides the media at the same day “National Science and technology Significant Special 2009 Annual report” demonstrated that reorganization smallpox vaccine virus (rTV) AIDS vaccineⅠThe time divides intoⅠa,Ⅰthe b two stages carry on.Ⅰa time result indicated: Is presented the anticipated vaccine inoculation trying to respond that may endure good to the rTV vaccine, has not observed the serious side reaction;Ⅰthe b time completed has received completely tries with clinical making a house-call, not serious bad event, the security was good. ItⅡThe time clinical laboratory needs the vaccine already completed the production, is carrying on the secure appraisal, estimated that develops in the second half of the year in 2010ⅡTime clinical trial research. It is known that the rTV vaccine is current internationally only progresses to the clinical trial stage duplication carrier HIV vaccine.

At the same time, the second generation of DNA vaccine, the mucous membrane vaccine, the smallpox vaccine carrier and the new vaccine antigen’s design and the transformation innovative work has developed smoothly, causes the Chinese second generation of HIV vaccine to have the stronger technical superiority and the competitive power, has completed the talented person troop and the technological strength for the next stage’s clinical trial research.

In addition, the backing “AIDS and the toxic hepatitis and so on significant infectious disease prevents and controls” special and other national science and technology plan, 4 AIDS vaccine team and 2 technology platform person in charge organize spontaneously, the union nation more than 50 scientific research courtyards, the key colleges and universities, the vaccine Production unit has established Chinese AIDS vaccine alliance (CAVI), promotes Chinese AIDS vaccine domain the interflow and cooperation effectively, the shared resource, the intercommunication information, crosswise union development technology attack.

“AIDS and the toxic hepatitis and so on significant infectious disease prevents and controls” the special new hepatitis B medical vaccine, in already 243 example hepatitis B patient who completesⅡThe time clinical demonstrates a more satisfactory curative effect, under significant special support,ⅢThe time clinical trial has completed 517 example hepatitis B patient’s recruiting, 400 example patients have completed the vaccine treatment, estimated that at the end of 2010 completes this vaccine the registration clinical trial.

Author Dr. Stephen-Claude Hyatt

Many scientists thought that the homosexuality tendency is not homosexual own simple choice, on the contrary it is decides by homosexual’s some biotic factor. In recent years, the scientist, the psychologist to raised the question unceasingly about the homosexuality each traditional ideas. They already started to study the hormone to the human in the embryo time influence with person’s sex orientation contacting.

　If this kind of relation existence, then we have the reason to support this kind of view view: “homosexual’s sexual preference is inborn, he is unable to change, he is also not unnecessary to be responsible for his sexual preference.”Has some people even to think, no matter individual locates the social environment how, is he the homosexuality or the heterosexual love is doomed.

　More and more scientists start for this viewpoint “the homosexuality tendency and the human body interior male gender and the female hormone proportion related” seek for the evidence. The research result also showed that male homosexual in vivo the male hormone is short under the same level condition obviously the heterosexual love male. This result has caused another important question “the homosexuality gene whether to exist”?

　in 1993, Dean Hamer has conducted a series of research to 40 pairs of homogeneous companion. He discovered that in many homosexual’s X chromosomes has a section to be called Xq28 the gene fragment. Through inspects these homosexual’s family history, finally demonstrates in these families the male to have in a big way becomes homosexual’s possibility.

The further research consolidated the homosexuality gene to have this kind of theory, for instance the Dr. Ann Perkins research, he discovered that 10% rams were interested to other rams, 10% rams did not have the sexual preference. These research had also demonstrated many locusts when copulation will care that opposite party will be the female or the male gender, between the male fruit fly will frequently also have the behavior which will woo mutually. But also some people refute “the existence homogeneous gene” this idea, for instance journalist Chandler Burr, he firmly believes only then the wisdom person (next to have explanation) to have the so-called sexual preference, will look like only then the humanity only then to have the sense of humor to be the same.

Lin Yanqing: Accumulates merit scientific and technical university humanity sexology research institute Manager

“the homosexuality will obtain AIDS” will be a too brief deduction. In fact, the homosexual not necessarily will suffer from AIDS; But suffers from AIDS’s person not necessarily is the homosexual, but, sexual partner many are an AIDS’s high dangerous group spot is also good.

But in fact, the homosexual not necessarily will have the homogeneous sex act; Moreover, AIDS has the pathogen, is also “the human immunity lacks the filterable virus” (H.I.V.), has not contacted HIV’s person not to fall ill. AIDS main dissemination way: First, mother and child vertical infection: Has HIV’s mother, or when feeds the mother’s milk the virus passes to through the placenta the child.

　Second, the input contains virus’s blood: The use the injection syringe which, the needle, the blood transfusion pollutes (or blood preparation), enables the virus to have the opportunity to enter the human body.

Third, with is had the infected person the natural contact: The reason that the homosexuality sex act “bears the brunt”, is because homosexual’s main sexual intercourse way - - anal sex - - easy to create in the anus the skin surface layer injury, then infection virus. Especially the homosexual does not have the marital safeguard, the possible sexual partner to be many.

Also has some people to have many sexual partners, actually had not suffered from AIDS, possibly with has not occurred the infected person the contact; Also has the possibility body is the carrier, actually has not been taken bad, must inspect only then knew.

At present the entire world’s trend, favors more and more in accepts the life style which each person chooses, and gives the respect. The homosexual behavior does not injure others, we must try to understand and to admit them.

We knew, even if is the heterosexuals also has the opportunity to disseminate each kind of venereal diseases, including AIDS. Therefore, the pipe shaft is not the homosexual or the heterosexuals, the responsible procedure is: The fixed sexual partner, the regular health examination, each disposable contact use protective measures and so on condom.

“AIDS” looks like an alarm, enables us to have the opportunity to face up to the ancient moral outlook, like loyal, good faith and so on. Is not only the homosexual must care that own health, the modern people should not lower one’s guard facing AIDS.

I and present’s boyfriend had already been together for two-and-a-half years, I love him very much, actually has betrayed him on the body.

I and he am acquainted with one another in a QQ group, remembered that just started to fail to agree, does not have what favorable impression to him, afterward did not know how a matter, did transform gradually from the repugnance likes. After meeting, we start to fall in love, I also look at compared to myself importantly him, takes many year savings, has bought the house to him, expected that can defend the entire life with him.

But, my physiology and the psychology are unexpectedly inconsistent. Last week, I went off track.

That day, I and the colleague soak, in the bar has unceasingly “sells” young lady to suggest to me. Did not know that is because after the liquor disturbs the disposition, other reasons, I have not controlled, has visited prostitute ……After finishing up, I thought intermittent sad, after going home, did not dare facing him.

At that time he quickly has celebrated a birthday, 25 year-old birthday. He likes photographing very much, I already thought to be good, this year must deliver him best Shan Fan the camera, certainly must let him be delighted. For this camera, in these two months except each month room loan, I by might and main have also economized, Lian Haoyan do not give up pull out ……Who knew the money which these saved laboriously actually to spend to visit prostitute, I was really not the human!

Remembered when 15 years old begin to be interested in the opposite sex, I first time fall in love with homogeneous male schoolmate, but my young lad body is actually when 18 years old is broken by a female schoolmate. Afterward, I once off and on and two women had pass away the body relations, but in the heart a spot did not love them, was only releases on their body wants.

　For me, has two people in the true sense with the homogeneous natural contact, one is with me with city middle-aged Gay, we are also know in the QQ group. His five officials are very attractive, chats with him very congenially, therefore approximately came out to meet, drank together eats meal, goes out to play. Soon, opposite party proposed the request, I also very like him, has tacitly approved, went to the room together.

But, all were inferior I thought that smooth happy. When we took off clothes, when naked relative, I discover a oneself not physiological reaction. At that time I was specially poverty-stricken, wish one could to look for a tunnel to worm one’s way into. He does not have to mind very much luckily that the mouth hand and the land help me, only then lets my suddenly Q, and completes X behavior with him.

I thought that perhaps I merely have the favorable impression to this middle-aged Gay sentiment, has not loved, therefore only then does not have the physiological reaction. But regarding present’s boyfriend, I knew that oneself is loving him deeply, who knows I will appear “have not responded” the situation.

I love him, but I actually do not like with him doing, even works as his surface, I am being unable to erect, this question makes me to puzzle. Facing these more than two years nearly asexual lives, I once suspected that I am X incompetent. He that loves me, I actually occurs with the opposite sex goes off track the relations, lets me guilty difficult to bear, fully suffered is suffered the conscience.

I did not know how I am a matter, also did not know how then should manage ……I am Gay or straight male?

　Moves in the dormitory is the university student experiences the collective life the optimal path, but has many people actually to treat as the dormitory “the free clock hotel”, unscrupulous makes “honorable person show” greatly in front of the roommate. Because Hong Kong has the university student its roommate’s girlfriend to stay overnight in somebody’s home for a long time, down to often is compelled to act as them to be intimate the sex act “the audience”, deeply felt that is not respected.

In addition, in the university dormitory room “the homogeneity is tangled up”, even the double room to turn “the mixed doubles” four person of room and so on all sorts of natural culture phenomenon also more to see universally, some people gradually feel commonly seen, also has the influent is abhorred. At present the university dormitory regulation does not have the definite orders to forbid the sex act generally, but the famous dormitory superintendents refer to do not encourage or should not carry on the sex act in the dormitory, specially must respect other to sleep the friend, cannot affect others.

The newest issue of Chinese University of Hong Kong “University Line” has discussed the related dormitory sex act question, and “the victim” narrates its personal experience and the view by the multi-names. Presently goes study big literary academy third grade Armin (alias) to recall, dayi when the dormitory life is unusual “unforgettablily”, a roommate’s girlfriend week has 6 days to be able to pass the night, the room turned two person of love nests, oneself instead become “the bystander”.

Armin refers to, even if on the scene, two people also often the Buddhist ritual procedures hug and kiss, what exaggerates is one before dawn, Armin sees the roommate always to stare at him, then feigns sleeps soundly, has not expected opposite party to start with the girlfriend to make love unscrupulously unexpectedly, makes him to be indignant.

　Armin indicated that that time afterward he, once had a premonition that “has the matter to occur”, then can only the helpless leave the room voluntarily, everywhere takes a stroll for more than one hours only then to go back. He refers to, the roommate and girlfriend all sorts of behaviors bring many inconveniences for oneself, latter is driven beyond the limits of forbearance finally, “lays cards on the table” to opposite party, has finished this section of awkward dormitory life. “the sex act itself not wrong, but if affects others then very should not!”

　But in the dormitory “the homosexuality sleeps the friend” open behavior, also lets many National People’s Congress feeling puzzle. Hong Kong University literary academy’s Arab League Kay (alias) indicated that oneself last year was the dormitory host, one time informed schoolmate to attend the activity, entered the room then to see that two female students on bed tangled up, “this female homosexuality could lead the girlfriend nearly every day to the dormitory over night, in addition opposite party girlfriend appearance virilization, the common female student therefore received frightens.”

　In another Hong Kong the big Academy of social science graduate Arab League thunderclap (alias) indicated that when 2 years ago lodging, he sees has a sexual intercourse the belt girlfriend to the dormitory over night, oneself also “refuse to admit being inferior”, a result between male student lives the double room, becomes “the mixed doubles” four person of room. However he thought that the question is not big, “the situation likely camps is the same, has each sphere of action respectively, between also has the tacit understanding, if knew that opposite party drawer has deposited the condom, once oneself the `stockout ‘ will also borrow uses.”

　Some university students believed that the dormitory sex act is very ordinary in the foreign country, the nature is a life part, but in dormitory also “convenient”, but also has the student to refer to, the roommate regards the belt girlfriend to stay overnight naturally to, the behavior exaggeration, stirs up trouble other people life.

　It is known that universal university like big and port big and so on, sleeps the gauge not to have the definite orders to forbid the sex act, but is equipped with “the opposite sex visitation time” the stipulation, was discovered that opposite sex staying overnight (popular name mandarin duck snake), will then make the punishment. The big advantage tree cultivates hall dormitory superintendent Huang Gen spring and Hengsheng building dormitory superintendent Zou sweet osmanthus Qamdo refers to, does not encourage the dormitory sex act.

　Big knowing and doing building dormitory superintendent Chen Zhiming and port university student purser Zhou Weili expressed that does not favor interferes the student personal life, but the university student wants to be responsible for own behavior, does not deal with others to create stirs up trouble. Great nation 楙 building dormitory superintendent Chen Huoyi stressed that the dormitory is not equal to the family, even if does not affect other people not to carry on the sex act.

Teaches to comment meeting Vice-President He Hanquan to believe that the university student should not imitate the foreign culture recklessly after screening, must conceive for others, because cannot exaggerate the sex act which crosses the border to affect other people campus life.